Always Apologize, Always Explain

Beck, Martha
September 2004
O, The Oprah Magazine;Sep2004, Vol. 5 Issue 9, p105
Presents information on the psychology behind an apology. Advice on when to give an apology; Tips on how to show remorse; Definition of an apology.


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