Talk It Like a Man

Kluger, Bruce
March 2006
Psychology Today;Mar/Apr2006, Vol. 39 Issue 2, p46
The author relates his experiences in bonding with his male friends when his wife left him for another man. He sought for the help of a therapist and his female friends to cope with the problem. He read self-help books and received a lot of counsel and advice from women. They formed the Lonely Hearts Club and meet every Thursday night to share new insights.


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