TITLE

When bargaining backfires

AUTHOR(S)
Lamb, Marguerite
PUB. DATE
December 2006
SOURCE
Parenting;Dec2006/Jan2007, Vol. 20 Issue 11, p178
SOURCE TYPE
Periodical
DOC. TYPE
Article
ABSTRACT
The article presents tips for parents on asking their child to behave or to do something without making deals. Rewards and punishments will only get a child to behave in the short-term, according to Alfie Kohn, author of Unconditional Parenting. By preschool age, children can better weigh their options and are less likely to accept a deal. Explain why a demand is important. Try to make a chore enjoyable.
ACCESSION #
23331330

 

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